Yes, please, I’d like to help you to help me.
Well, I changed all the structure of my pages with the update because I was using the Standard Pack before and now I’m only using the Cloud Template and I disabled the Standard Pack. My pages are full of ads, and clearly, this adds requests (many), but no changes in the update (before/after) in this field. No new plugins, I removed some of them instead, trying to find a solution for my issue.
My server is not the best server possible, so this might be the problem and I can accept it and I will probably buy a better one soon. But what made me disappointed was that I expected better performance (following this page https://tagdiv.com/newspaper-theme-update-standard-pack-or-tagdiv-cloud-templates/), I thought that the 10 version was a lot better than the 9 and that’s why I wrote here.
Thank you so much for your reply, I will send you an email as soon as possible

That is why we put so many accent on the requirements that issues like this to be avoided

ok, please tell me where I am wrong with the requirements you ask for:

also, I’m not talking about page speed, I don’t care about GTmetrix, you can check mine (96%) but still, the theme is very heavy and you should tell this before buying it

I read all these, but come on, I’m not talking about page speed, I’m not talking about big images, css files etc. The theme makes too many requests to the server, it requires too many power and if I knew it was so I would have not upgraded to version 10.
Your themeforest page said the version 10 was better, and it is not at all. I bought the theme for all those good things like ajax loads, infinite post scroll etc but now you are saying to me “Do you see how many beautiful things you can do with my theme? Great, but sorry if you want your site keep alive online disable everything! And still, << please note that using our theme, you need to have a good host with very good resources >> (this is a quote by Calin here https://forum.tagdiv.com/topic/a-few-tips-for-newspaper-x-speed-high-cpu-usage-issues/)”. I dont think this is fair